It’s Time to Move On

Sometimes we think we’re done. It’s time to move on, or so we believe. We’re ready to be done with a season because we’re exhausted or we see a better offer. Things aren’t going well, or things are going exceptionally well. For whatever reason, we assess (or rationalize) that God is prompting us to take a step away from where we are and move on to something else. Especially if it takes time for us to adjust to the idea of moving on, it’s hard when God says, “Wait just a minute.”

 photo b5fd6be6e87f5a510a95374c841c7dc3a7530c63_zpsmhkbh0ls.jpgJesus did it to Simon in Luke 5. Simon and other fishermen had been trying to catch fish all night. They were done. In fact, they were washing their nets, which wasn’t a simple task. They definitely did not want to dirty them again and restart the clean-up process. It’s like having everything wrapped up for the day, all accounts reconciled, notes written, reports submitted, electronics shut down, doors locked, then someone asking you to open up and get everything started again.

Only Jesus didn’t ask. He stepped into the boat, began teaching, and told Simon to fish.

Simon felt the need to report to Jesus what a waste of time fishing would be based on what was going on. I can hear our similar responses:

  • “But God, these people just don’t respect me any longer. In fact, I’m not sure if they ever liked me. Don’t ask me to stay. It’s just not going to work.”
  • “I’ve done everything you’ve asked me to do. I finally find myself wrapping everything up. It seems like it’s time to move on. Let’s not spin our wheels and waste time—yours or mine.”
  • “Can’t I just start over somewhere else? I’ve learned some lessons. I’ve put it my time. I deserve to move on, don’t I?”

Sometimes God lets us know something is going to change, so we expect it to change immediately (or at least, in our preferred, convenient timing). But everything He reveals to us happens in His time, not ours. Other times, we project our will onto His will. We want something to change so badly that we determine, surely, He agrees with us. He wants what we want, because He wants us to be happy, content, and fulfilled, right?

And that’s often where our distortion of His will and timing begins. We then respond to Him with hesitancy, confusion, denial, and stubbornness.

Simon set an example for us. He reminded Jesus why fishing might not be a good idea, but in the same breath, he said, “But because you say so, I will let down the nets” (Luke 5:5b). Simon trusted Jesus more than his own experiences and understanding.

So, what can you do when you believe it’s time to move on but God is keeping you where you are, directing you to repeat something you prefer to leave behind?

  • Follow God’s instructions. No matter what your preferences and understanding, continue to honor God with your obedience. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
  • Pray with thanksgiving. Questions and requests have their place in your prayers, but don’t let them overshadow your gratitude for God’s presence and provision. (Philippians 4:6-7)
  • Practice godly perseverance. Set your heart and mind on God’s will, not your own. Be diligent, not stubborn. (Hebrews 12:1-2; Job 11:13-18)

There is a season for everything, but you don’t get to decide what season you are in and when the season changes. However, you get to decide how to respond as God leads you through each season. Whether you like it or not, He knows the outcome better than you do. You can trust Him.

Susan Lawrence

Susan Lawrence is passionate about pouring into women and loves to equip and encourage them – as individuals and teams – through writing, speaking, and training. She serves her local church as Small Groups and Communications Director. Susan is the author of Pure Purpose, Pure Emotion, Pure Growth, Pure Faith, Pure Love, Pure Submission, and Mombarbed, as well as Farm Days, a collection of memories from her childhood growing up on the family farm in central Illinois. (Studies are available at Amazon and PurePurpose.org.)

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2 Comments

  1. Such a timely post. We are learning that God seems to be putting the brakes on our planned move to be close to our children and grandchildren. Thank you for the Bible references. we Praying that we will live our remaining time in this season obediently.

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  2. Trust God’s timing. It is certainly not easy but definitely worth the effort and obedience.

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