Connecting Across Ministries:
- What does that look like?
- What does that mean?
- How do you even get started on something like that?
There are so many times when you spend your day (your life) in ministry that you get so caught up and focused on what your ministry is doing or even what your church is doing that you tend to forget that there are so many other people out there doing the same thing as you and sometimes even better.
For years it has been a part of my ministry philosophy to share, connect, and encourage others in ministry. I like to meet with leaders from other churches or ministries and get to know them. Figure out how we can mutually help each other, share ideas, dream together, and just have someone to talk with that totally “gets them”.
Connecting Across Ministries: What does that look like?
Just last week I went to lunch with the Kids Ministry Director at another church in my area and just spent two hours laughing, dreaming, sharing, but importantly just listening. In the course of our time together it became evident that she just needed to talk, so talk we did, and we did lots of it.
But you want to know what else happened just from us hanging out and encouraging each other? She has offered to allow my church to have all their VBS set designs and props this summer. If you know anything about VBS then you’ll know that this is a very large and gracious gift, to which I am extremely thankful to accept.
Connecting Across Ministries: What does that mean?
Sharing,
Caring,
Dreaming,
Encouraging,
Listening.
We do these things all the time with our volunteers and those who come into our ministries. How much sweeter is it to be able to do the same thing for someone else in ministry. They can be in ministry in your local area or even online, but we all can learn from and grow with each other to make the Kingdom even better.
Next month we’ll finish up with Part 2 of “Making Ministry More Effective: Connecting Across Ministries”, now that we know what it looks like and what it means, come back so we can talk more about how you get started and why follow up is so important.
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If I am meeting with another woman in ministry or Pastor’s wife, then I might bring along a little gift to share with her. I just recently read an amazing new book called “10 Things Every Minister’s Wife Needs to Know” by Jeana Floyd and it was so good that it is now something that I will bring to every new meeting.
A strong marriage plays a pivotal role in the success of a ministry. Being the wife of a minister can be tremendously rewarding, but it is also a commitment of time, personal investment, and patience. Ministry is a challenging vocation, even in the best of times.
Jeana Floyd knows these challenges well and has created this faith-affirming guide for pastors’ wives. Sharing years of wisdom and insight from her participation in her husband’s growing and visionary ministry, 10 Things Every Minister’s Wife Needs to Know is filled with practical tips on marriage, prayer, stewardship, parenting, and faith. With “interactive testimonies” included from other wives of pastors at the end of each chapter the book shares poignant and powerful insights any woman or wife can appreciate.
I love this book so very much and am excited to let you know that the publisher, New Leaf Publishing Group, has graciously offered to give away an autographed copy of this sweet little treasure to one blessed reader here at the Ministry Counter!
All you have to do is leave a comment and either;
- Let me know how you “Connect Across Ministries”, or
- What from today’s post really met you where you are, or
- The name of the Pastor’s Wife that you’d like to give it to.
Father God, thank you for allowing us to connect with other women in ministry. Whether they are local or across the globe it is our heart’s desire to link arms with them and continue to grow this Kingdom for your glory. Thank you for allowing us to go on this journey together. In Jesus Name, Amen.




Bless you for your precious ministry, may it continue to grow.
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Awww, thank you so much Denise! xoxo
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The ladies group in a nearby town host an annual salad luncheon and different denominations from a 60 mile radius attend. We enjoy lots of salads (it is a salad per car load), good fellowship and a great speaker.
Yesterday was the last day for our senior pastor. We are praying as a church for guidance. In the meantime our associate pastor is stepping up to the plate and I think your book would be a great one for his wife! They have been with us for two years and are a great couple, have started new ministries and have enriched our lives.
Thank you for sharing and may God Bless You! Josie
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Great post, Melissa. This is definitely something that those of us in ministry should do. WE are all working toward the same goal…why compete? Let’s complete each other.
Take care, friend,
Leah
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Very well said my friend…thank you! xoxo
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Great message!… I would give the book to our former pastor’s wife Dinah Robles who 1st encouraged my husband and I to join various ministries at our church. She has been a beautiful inspiration and encouragement in our marriage.
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Awesome post girl! I’m so glad that you are one of the people who “gets” me and that I can share my life and ministry with!
Sue
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Girl, you have no idea how thankful I am for you…you have been such a blessing to me in life and ministry! Thank you for being the real thing!
xoxo, Mel
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Melissa – how true that it is so easy to get caught up in our own “world” – the fellowship and encouragement with one another makes the journey much sweeter. I am a pastor’s wife – blessed that God has chosen me for this special calling. I’m sure your book giveaway would be a wonderful treasure for me.
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Melissa – how true – it is so easy to get caught up in our own “world” – the fellowship and encouragement with each other makes the journey sweeter. I am a pastor’s wife – blessed that God has chosen me for this special calling. I’m sure that your book giveaway would be a treasure for my life.
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Melissa – how true – it is so easy to get caught up in our own “world” – the fellowship and encouragement with one another makes the journey sweeter. I am a pastor’s wife – blessed that God has chosen me for this special calling. I’m sure that your book giveaway would be a treasure for my life.
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Sue, I know it would be…and yes, the journey can be much sweeter with those who “get” what it is to be a PW. Blessings to you…xoxo, Melissa
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I would love to be able to give this book to my friend, Sarah. Her husband has been in youth ministry but recently has been called by God to pastor. He is currently seeking where God would have him serve. They will likely be moving and it would be a great gift for her as she departs.
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Laura, it would absolutely make a fantastic gift for her…I will pray for her as she starts a new adventure! xoxo, Melissa
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I love the idea. Sometimes it can get a little overwhelming. It would be great to have someone, or a group to talk with to share and get advice. Can’t wait for part 2.
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Our church just got done with a week long VBS that was done with 2 other churches. We have been doing this for over 5 years and it is the ONLY way to do it! We have more volunteers, more kids and are able to share the facilities bills (every year have VBS at one church and the closing ceremony at another, then swtich the following year).
We also have an organist (and retired Pastor’s wife) that plays organ for our church and then goes over to the other church nearly every Sunday.
If we don’t work together we lose out on so much!
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That is soooo true KC, so true…I love that idea…we just share the props, but maybe one day we will share the load too. Thanks for the great idea! xoxo, Melissa
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oops, I meant she plays organ at the other church as well.
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I love your post!! I’d love to give this book to one of the pastors wives at my church. We have an amazing outreach present- food pantry, clothes/shoes/socks/blankets/etc for the homeless. God Bless you and the work you do!
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Hey There Susan, I just wanted to say THANK YOU so very much for your words of encouragement…AND…to let you know that you won the copy of the book, send me an email at melsworldministry {at} gmail {dot} com and I’ll have the book sent out to you. Congrats! xoxo, Mel
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Woman! You KNOW how much I love this. ❤
Making Ministry More Effective: Connecting Across Ministries
hmmm, sounds like a conference.
More need to see this in ACTION- Like HOW to Connect, HOW to reach across the street, the city, the state, the nation with other ministries. WOot!
And, oh Like Sue… I’m so glad you ‘get’ me too. SO blessed by your friendship!
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This is just a great post!! It’s so true that we can become so preoccupied w/ our own ministries that we don’t take the time to learn from other precious brothers and sisters (who may have some awesome ideas!). I’m so excited about this new feature!! =)
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I love your post Mel and looking forward to more from this ministry. As you know this is my heart. Connecting ministry leaders across denominational lines. Reading your post and comments make me feel like I have sat at the most Favorite table of ladies enjoying hot tea/coffee and sharing what God is doing in all of us!
Can’t wait for more!!
Love, Cherie
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